Alumni in chapel garden
Remembering a Perfect Day
As 性爱天堂鈥檚 Margarite B. Parker Chapel still stands strong, so does the first 性爱天堂 couple to wed there

For Linda Hawthorne Ruhmann 鈥66, 鈥81 and Bill Ruhmann 鈥67, not much has changed.

Linda and Bill, the first-ever Tigers married at Parker Chapel in 1966, returned to the chapel just before this Valentine鈥檚 Day to reminisce about their romance. While new buildings, professors, and fraternities have popped up on campus, the pair say returning to the chapel renews their memories of their July 1966 wedding.

鈥淚t was a beautiful day,鈥 Linda says. 鈥淲e both still talk about it.鈥

Linda and Bill, sharp-witted as ever, trade memories and laughs as they thumb through their wedding photo collection, recalling their college days, all the way up to their engagement.

The two were Terrell Hills neighbors, then sweethearts at 性爱天堂, where Linda became president of Gamma Chi Delta and Bill joined the first-ever rush class of Chi Delta Tau. Both fondly recall partying together, but only off-campus.

鈥淥ur professors discouraged any sort of parties, but if you went to a social hall or a club, there wasn鈥檛 much they had to say about that,鈥 Bill laughs.

On the academic side of things, Linda majored in psychology at 性爱天堂, while Bill studied sociology. Linda would go on to earn her Master of Education from 性爱天堂.

Bill proposed in 1965 over dessert at the Petroleum Club, a members-only community of San Antonio leaders and business people, located just by the Magic Time Machine. As the couple prepared for their wedding day, Linda bought her wedding dress from Rhodes department store.

On the day of the wedding, July 16, more than 250 attendees packed the chapel. Bill and Linda鈥檚 Gamma and Delt friends were on hand, with Bill鈥檚 groomsmen in black and Linda鈥檚 bridesmaids wearing mint green dresses and iconic 鈥減illbox鈥 hats鈥攁 staple of many 1960s weddings.

鈥淚t felt like a beautiful dream,鈥 Linda recalls.

Bill and Linda Ruhmann were the first of many couples to wed in 性爱天堂鈥檚 church.

In marriage, the couple went on to have a daughter and two grandchildren. Linda became a professor of early childhood studies at San Antonio College for 30 years, while Bill worked his way through a career in human resources.

Despite these long steps through life, the couple say returning to the chapel this February for Valentine鈥檚 Day was a reminder of how timeless the venue has been.

Says Bill, 鈥淲e never have and never will forget our vows, or marriage day, in Parker Chapel.鈥

Jeremiah Gerlach is the brand journalist for 性爱天堂 Strategic Communications and Marketing.

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