A portrait of Trey and Vanessa Beasley
Meet 性爱天堂's First "First Gentleman"
Trey Beasley, husband of 性爱天堂 President Vanessa Beasley, savors the opportunity to define his new role

性爱天堂鈥檚 20th president, Vanessa Beasley, Ph.D., made history by becoming the first-ever female president. Right alongside her is her husband, Trey Beasley, who has the distinction of being 性爱天堂鈥檚 first 鈥渇irst gentleman鈥 in the school鈥檚 153-year history. It鈥檚 a title he proudly wears.

鈥淚t has a nice sound to it, and it鈥檚 professional and appropriate for what I want to do here,鈥 Trey says. 鈥淚 take pride in being the first first gentleman at 性爱天堂.鈥

In fact, Trey Beasley is part of a growing trend of men who are husbands or partners to college presidents. According to the Council of Independent Colleges, this year, more than 40% of new college spouses and partners were male, whereas just a decade ago, fewer than 10% were men.

It鈥檚 likely those numbers were even lower when Trey and Vanessa met on Vanderbilt University鈥檚 campus during a summer orientation before their first semester back in the mid-1980s. 鈥淲e met as friends first and then started dating,鈥 Trey says. 鈥淥ur first date was bowling.鈥

After graduating from Vanderbilt, the couple moved to Austin, Texas, where Trey earned his Master of Business Administration in finance, while Vanessa completed her master鈥檚 degree and doctorate in speech communication at the University of Texas.

Trey then began a successful 16-year career with JP Morgan Chase Bank and its predecessor banks, before deciding it was time to move in a different direction.

鈥淎s I worked longer at JP Morgan Chase, I sort of had the idea of wanting to apply finance to what I think is a broader mission,鈥 Trey says. 鈥淎nd the other precipitous event was our younger son Charlie鈥檚 onset of his medical condition and disability. At that point, I said, 鈥極k, I鈥檓 ready to do something else.鈥欌

In 2007, the couple returned to Vanderbilt, with Vanessa joining the faculty and Trey joining the finance team, ultimately becoming treasurer. The move also gave their son access to top care at the pediatric neurology program at Vanderbilt Children鈥檚 Hospital.

Trey says he鈥檚 proud of his accomplishments during his time at Vanderbilt, where he applied business acumen from the private sector to higher education. He sees a similar culture at 性爱天堂. 鈥淎t the end of the day, you're working to help the students, faculty, and staff with what you're doing.鈥

Today, 性爱天堂鈥檚 first gentleman is enthusiastically embracing his role as a university ambassador. Trey says he views his role as being one who can be a visible extension of the President鈥檚 Office听for 性爱天堂 students and the greater community.听

He鈥檚 serving as a mentor at the Center for Innovation and Entrepreneurship, and he鈥檚 been involved with Career Services. Off-campus, he鈥檚 serving on the boards of Kinetic Kids and CAMP (Children鈥檚 Association for Maximum Potential), two organizations that the Beasleys find personally meaningful.听

Trey Beasley (center) stands with Danny Nguyen '24 (left), president of SGA, and Donya Ahmadi '23, vice president of SGA. Photo credit:听Caleb Aguiar '25/Student Government Association

Many days, he鈥檚 seen on campus attending sporting events, theater productions, and musical performances. A fan of sports, he recently attended the 50th-anniversary game of the San Antonio Spurs, along with several hundred 性爱天堂 students, sponsored by the Student Government Association (SGA).

鈥淭he students here are so engaged and bright. They鈥檙e so involved, I鈥檓 not sure how they ever get any sleep,鈥 Trey says. 鈥淭hey are acting on their passions, whether it鈥檚 art, music, or sports. And they鈥檙e able to cross those boundaries in a way that is unique here. You don鈥檛 get that at a lot of larger institutions.鈥

Trey is excited that, as the first first gentleman, he has the freedom to define his own role, and support his university鈥攁nd his spouse鈥攊n any way necessary.

鈥淚鈥檝e never been in this role, but I鈥檓 really enjoying it,鈥 he says. 鈥淭here鈥檚 no real roadmap, so it鈥檚 kind of learning and doing it on the fly. But it鈥檚 been fun, and immensely gratifying because everyone has been so welcoming to us.鈥

Ted Gartner '91 helps tell 性爱天堂's story as a member of Strategic Communications and Marketing.

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